REMEMBER

REMEMBER... remember how much you desired that job? how much you longed for that husband? how much you prayed for that friend? for that miracle? Remember how you allowed Jesus to love you in your pain, when you were lonely, scared or lost? 
Remember that He will do the same when you do have the husband & feel lonely at some point in that marriage...When you do have that job & you all of a sudden can't stand it... When you do have that friend and they are grating on your nerves... Or when that miracle doesn't seem like it's going to happen. Remember how much you prayed for that husband, job, miracle or friend and how God was faithful? He will be faithful now & has a purpose in the pain. 
He always comes through & gives you more than what you can ask or imagine. He has a plan.
Don't give up, don't let go, surrender, allow God to permeate every part of your soul and to fill every hurt with Him. He is the only one that can make a way. 
He will carry you when you're too weak to walk, He won't let go when you are too weak to hold on. Stop looking to find your feet and look for His... you won't find yours because He's carrying you. 
You will always be a work in progress...you will never be THERE. You will never be perfect, stop trying to achieve that and rest in the arms of the almightily savior. He loves you, He wants what is best for you. You won't feel more complete and rested as you do when you sit at His feet.
REMEMBER WHO HE IS, ALL HE HAS DONE & WHERE HE HAS BROUGHT YOU FROM. He has a plan, trust Him, even when it doesn't go the way you expected.